photo of the day 10/11/2011. photo © Mark I Chester.
I decided to post another photo of Avery that I am very fond of. A good friend who was an icon of the kink community when I joined Society of Janus in 1978 or 1979, lost a close friend and former husband to prostate cancer a few years ago. He had a tux and when he passed, she wanted the tux to remain in the sexual underground community. So she asked me to hold onto it until a proper home could be found. I held onto it for a few years and then one day it dawned on me that Avery might fit the tux. She tried on the tux and it was a perfect fit. Plus, Avery had the perfect attitude. And on top of that, the friend who passed had been a kinky cross dresser. So gender fluidity and kink were already part of the history of the tux and tux owner. I know that Charlie, the friend who passed, would approve.